A lot of individuals in love are going to suspect their partners of cheating even when there’s no reason to. That’s just how our minds have been conditioned to think because of the media and everything else that we’re exposed to.
While it can be very stressful carrying that kind of negative energy around in a relationship, you shouldn’t have to worry about your partner’s loyalty too much. Remember that while there are many reasons for you to cheat on one another, there are just as many convincing reasons for you to actually commit to each other. You just need to remind yourself of these reasons and all of your anxieties are going to be appeased. Remember that it doesn’t make sense for you to be worrying about something that you don’t really need to be worried about.
But if you still need some convincing, then perhaps you should refresh yourself on why it is highly likely that your guy is as loyal as a pet dog. He’s not cheating on you and he probably never will because of these specific reasons:
1. He is a morally upright and principled person.
Kudos to you if you’ve managed to land yourself a morally upright and standup guy. It’s rare to find principled men in this world who never compromise their moral compass. They are the men who believe in doing the right thing at all times regardless if it’s inconvenient to them or not. This is why you can always trust him to never cheat on you. He believes that the act of cheating is categorically wrong in itself and he would never subject himself to such moral impurity. He doesn’t care about how either of you are going to feel about cheating because he knows that the action in itself is unacceptable. Regardless of the consequences, he’s never going to engage in extramarital affairs because he understands that it’s just wrong.
2. He is worried about the effects that his cheating escapades would have on his children.
If you are married and you already have children, then that is another perfect reason why you shouldn’t worry about him acting unfaithful to you. A lot of men these days are just better fathers than the dads of before. They are more empathetic, sensitive, and more emotional. They are “softer” and they would be more mindful of how their actions or words may impact the lives of their children. That’s why the fact that you have kids can serve as an effective deterrent for your spouse to engage in extramarital affairs. He wouldn’t want his children to see their dad as a morally despicable human being who betrayed mommy.