Before you attract a man, you need to develop self-confidence. If you’re not happy with who you are, it’ll show from a mile away. Men are most attracted to women who look like they’re having fun with who they are, not those who are desperately seeking someone to fill a void in their lives. Develop your own identity and standard of values.
A man is attracted to a woman who feels comfortable with where she came from, where she is now, and where she is going. He wants someone who is comfortable with her desires, her limitations, and her aspirations.
Now that you’re feeling beautiful on the inside, it’s time to show off your looks through the right clothes and makeup. You don’t need to go on a shopping spree, but you should find the look that will help you snag a man.
1. Have the right hair and makeup.
Light hair and makeup maintenance can go a long way in emphasizing your best features. Most men prefer a natural look, so avoid trying too hard by applying too many layers of makeup or hairspray. Well, if you ask me it would be best to not where make-up, and show your natural beauty, but if you would like to put on a bit, then be my guest! But too much can make you look like you’re trying too hard.
2. Practice good hygiene.
That new dress or new found self-confidence won’t have much of an effect on the man of your dreams if you haven’t showered in a week. It’s important to stay clean and smell nice. I would wear some deodorant, or the slightest spritz of perfume! But not to much because some people react very poorly to it, and who knows what could happen?
3. Make a good first impression.
Now that you feel amazing both physically and emotionally, it’s time to attract that special someone.
Remember that you only get one first impression, so have a positive attitude before you meet the man in question.
4. Establish eye contact.
The first thing you can do is establish eye contact to show a man you’re interested.
Hold his gaze for just the right amount of time. You don’t have to stare into his eyes for hours, but looking at him for just a few seconds from across the room will show that you’re interested.
5. Have positive body language at all times.
Now that your man has seen the look in your eyes, as well as your pearly whites, it’s time to use your body to show him the attraction is mutual. Carry yourself in a confident manner. Don’t slouch, look at your feet, or cross your arms over your chest. Avoid nervous actions such as playing with your hair or biting your nails. Instead, face the man and keep your arms moving through gestures. This will make you seem like an open and dynamic person.
6. Just say “yes”.
This doesn’t mean you should agree with any strange idea your dream man may have, but it does mean you should have a positive attitude and be interested in what he has to say. Don’t be overly disagreeable right away–even if you disagree
7. Don’t be afraid to be funny.
Men love women who have a great sense of humor and who are confident enough to show it off. Though this may not be the time for knock-knock jokes, don’t be afraid to throw in a joke or two if the occasion is appropriate.
8. Show off your sharp mind.
Don’t be afraid to show off your brains for fear of intimidating a man. If he’s the right guy, he’ll be attracted by how smart you are, and will want to spend more time picking your brain.
Show him your knowledge of current events, historical figures, or even your witty analysis of pop culture. If you know what you’re talking about, he’ll be pleased to hear you pontificate about any subject.
9. If the conversation goes well, make plans to meet again.
Part of attracting a man is keeping him interested. If the flame of love is glowing, you should add logs to the hearth! You’d be surprised by how shy many men are, and how happy they are when women step up and take the initiative.
10. If your plan fails, don’t despair.
Unfortunately, certain men may not be attracted to you no matter how hard you try. But don’t sweat it–there are plenty of men out there, and you’ve made yourself a better person already by following these tips! If the man you’re seeking doesn’t recognize your new confidence, looks, or conversational skills, then someone else will come along who will never want to leave your side.
Though you may try to attract a man with all your might, his heart may be taken. Even if he’s not in a serious relationship, he may have had a recent heartbreak or could be pining for someone else, and there’s nothing you can do to change that.If you’re rejected, play it off. There’s no need for waterworks or angry text messaging if your crush doesn’t reciprocate your feelings. Hang tough and the right guy will come along!