Now how are we supposed to know that he is the right guy for us? We have to see if he has the same taste in music as ours and if he treats animals the same way we do. But it is more than that, at times, when we really have to do something about the relationship we should look for these 9 signs in the guy to be sure about him being the one.
These are all nice and important things/habits that a guy ought to have in order to be the right one.
1. He is Not Mysterious:
Guys and girls tend to keep their feelings inside and expect their partners to know them magically. Yes, people still do that. No science can solve this mystery as to why people do it. However, if the guy you are with is not used to do this but is very open with his feelings, it means he trusts you with almost everything. And ultimate trust only means a stronger relationship.
Emotions can be tricky to tackle with, especially when not shared openly. Guessing what the other person is thinking can be very difficult, obviously, we are no mind readers. If he is open with his feelings, it also means that he understands them himself very well. What can be more attractive than a guy who has everything sorted out?
Even if he is mysterious, you can ask him to open up, and if your requests make him express everything, he really likes you.
2. Always Appreciates Space:
Guys can be very clingy sometimes if they get too attached, just like girls, but if you are not the overly attached girlfriend and understand the meaning of ‘personal space’ while being in a relationship and expect the same from him, you are doing nothing wrong. A little privacy does not hurt even in a relationship. If he agrees with this then he is just the perfect guy, although make sure he does not get the wrong hit from the phrase ‘personal space’, that is where most cheating cases begin too.
You will know the relationship is standing at the perfect position when you both know when to be romantic and when to just let go for a while. He likes it when you cut loose and so do you, it is a great sign and absolutely necessary for a healthy and mature relationship. Cutting loose only means that you both respect each other’s’ personal lives and that is idealistic in a relationship.
3. He is The Greatest Kisser:
What is a relationship without good, deep kisses? Nothing, my friend, nothing.
You should get the chills when he comes closer to you, signalling that he is going to kiss you. Before being good with his mouth and tongue, he ought to know how to get you ready for it. Sometimes it is about the environment more than the kiss that makes a person go ‘wow’. Therefore, your perfect guy is perfect if he knows the art of kissing. After he has got you all ready, knowing what to do and where should be elementary.
It is not so necessary a sign but it IS important. So if he is not a good kisser but is willing to learn, stay connected! Wait until he learns with time (make sure only you teach him) and then enjoy all the tongue-rubbing chest-numbing kisses with the perfect guy!
4. Okay With Both Shaved and Unshaved Legs:
Okay, we admit, it is a noticeable prerequisite for a guy to be perfect for you, or anybody. We really cannot maintain hairless legs 24/7 and that should be a thing properly understood by him. He ought to know that shaved legs and only for summer and for date nights. He can ask you to shave them sometimes but should totally understand when you tell him you are too lazy for it at the moment. To be honest, it one hell of a task and since guys do not have to do it, they find it difficult to understand sometimes. But if your guy understands and appreciates both shaved and unshaved legs, he is the one!
Not to forget, shaved legs do look glorious and he deserves them after a lot of patience, so reward him occasionally, or don’t, whatever. He will understand. (That’s what we all say to ourselves, don’t we?!)
5. Knows All Your Likes and Dislikes:
The most important sign is here! The guy HAS to know what you like and what you hate because if he won’t, who will? It should be the first and foremost requirement!
Why is it so important? He has to be the one to know when to do what because he is your boyfriend. For instance, if you feel down or upset about something and he knows just the right thing to show you, which always makes you burst out laughing, it would be the perfect scenario. And a perfect scenario is all we all are looking for, aren’t we?
Your allergies and your fetishes, all should be very well-known by him. If you like chocolates or not, if you think Jason Statham movies are the best or if you dislike metal in music, all of the facts should be known and saved in his brain for later use and implementation.
6. He’s Fairytale Romantic:
Not all the time, of course, but occasionally he is as romantic as any cartoon guy in the Disney movies who takes the princess’s hand in his and dances all around down. Well, that would be kind of inappropriate, but he can give you roses and decorate the table or the bedroom for you once in a while.
To be the perfect guy, this does not have to be mentioned because it is so mandatory a quality. If he is really into you, he would never think twice to make you feel special, although expecting a lot from him would be a wrong thing to do. Just an occasional romantic dinner or a night out on top of a cliff etc should be enough to let you know that he loves you.
So, if he is fairytale romantic sometimes, take that as a very good sign!
7. He Gets You:
This might be the most important sign. In a relationship, among all the little things needed to cope up with the other person, the element of basic understanding should be first priority. If there is no understanding, there is no supporting and no trust, therefore understanding is like the root of all of it. Have you ever seen a tree without roots? no, right? So if he understands you, gets you because of the simple reason that he loves you, there does not have to be a stronger reason than that.
Getting you means trying to understand everything that you do without complaining or judging you. Love grows like that and relationships thrive like that, so if he is all for listening to you explain something you believe in without interrupting then he is a keeper; a keeper who is also a supporter (How rare is that?!)
8. He Respects your Parents:
There is something very charming about a guy who respects your parents. It may sound old school but it is really not. We all know the importance of parents or elders in general. A person who does not know how to acknowledge that importance and respect their experience is no good. Especially in a relationship, respecting your partner’s parents has its own charm. It shows that you are actually into the relationship, that you are committed and your respects do not just end at your partner but they extend to everyone he is close to or loves.
Fathers can be very protective, if he behaves in front of your father to assure him that you are in the right hands, he is doing just the right thing. You father will love him for it and you will too. Mothers can be very sweet, if he behaves accordingly with her and jokes around sometimes, he is an absolute gentleman.
9. You Like His Friends, Too:
Just like it is important for him to like your friends and get along with them, it is important for you to try to like his friends, too. Liking his friends means validating the guy: if you like his friends, he is obviously a person who keeps good company. And so, his friendship with people validates him and helps you decide if he is the right guy for you.
Not only will knowing and liking his friends help you validate him but also, you might get some new friends of your own too. If his friends like you back and hang out with you often, who knows you might find your best friend among them? It does not hurt to try. So, mutual friendship is an overall impressive idea and that is inevitable. Moreover, the more common the friends the stronger the relationship, therefore indulge with his friends as much as you can, it will be fun (if he agrees).