The three main ingredients for a successful marriage are a solid communication, mutual respect, and commitment.
If you hear your husband often repeating these phrases, talk openly with him about your feelings regarding these issues. He should show understanding and respect of your feelings and opinions.
1. “I’m bored”
You should have a change in routine form time to time. Are you happy the way things are? Can you do something to freshen up your relationship? You ought to make efforts to do different things from time to time in order to maintain a fresher, deeper attachment and emotional stability.
2. “You never understand what I’m saying,” or “You don’t understand me”
Males and females are different when it comes to certain views of things. That can lead to problems in communication from time to time. If he often says that he is misunderstood you both should take time and really listen to what the other has to say and focus on what the others’ points are. That is the key to a successful marriage.
3. “You will never change”
Change is hard. If your husband is always nagging that you never change you should talk to him and explain where does your behavior come from. Furthermore, compromise is essential so spouses can be different and behave individually but still make it work.