If Your Guy Possesses These 10 Qualities, Never Ever Let Him Go

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1. He is a great chef.

This might seem trivial but having a guy who knows how to cook is always going to be a huge plus.

Imagine coming from a stressful day at work and you have a beautiful spread of food laid out in front of you.

It’s just one of his major attributes that genuinely contribute to your overall happiness and comfort.

He is always looking for ways to make you happy and this is definitely one of them.

2. He loves you despite your quirks and your awkwardness.

He knows that you are an imperfect person.

He knows that you are going to have your stretches of weirdness.

He understands that you are going to have your flaws.

In fact, some might even go so far as to say that you are an acquired taste.

But he doesn’t care about any of it.

He understands that your quirks and your flaws are part of who you are. And he loves all of you, including the good parts and the bad.

 

3. He doesn’t try to be anything other than who he really is.

He’s not a pretender.

He doesn’t alter the core of his being to make people like him more. He doesn’t try to be someone he’s not.

He’s perfectly comfortable with being himself because he knows that that’s enough.

He isn’t fake.

He isn’t hiding anything about himself.

You know that it’s a case of “what you see is what you get” with him. He would never ever be dishonest to you about anything.

So you would never have to worry about him being a wolf in sheep’s clothing.

You wouldn’t have to be scared about him having any ill intentions.

4. He doesn’t like going to bed without fixing a fight.

Of course he isn’t the type of guy with whom you will be in agreement all of the time.

You’re never going to find a man with whom you share the same perspective every single time.

But the great thing about him is that he is always good at finding a resolution.

He never wants you guys to go to sleep at night at odds with each other.

He is always willing to find a middle ground with you.

5. He makes an effort for your parents to like him.

He understands just how important your parents and your family are to you.

That’s why he makes a genuine effort for them to like him.

He will always put in the work to make them know that his intentions are real and pure.

It’s just as important to him for them to like him as it is for you.

6. He is always fun regardless of where you are or what you’re doing.

It’s always a good time whenever you’re together.

It doesn’t even matter what you’re doing or where you are in the world.

The only thing that matters is that you are with each other and that you are enjoying one another’s company.

He has the power to make you feel at ease and comfortable around his presence.

He never makes you feel tensed up or stressed out. His presence is always a great escape for you.

7. He trusts you and he also gives you enough reason to trust him.

Trust is a very important aspect of any relationship.

You can’t possibly afford to be in a long-term relationship with a person you don’t trust.

It just won’t work.

There is no stability or consistency in the relationship when there is no trust.

Couples can’t afford to be keeping each other on the edge.

They always have to be able to rely on each other.

8. He is consistent.

He is stable. He is actually someone who shows up every single day.

He isn’t hot and cold.

He isn’t wishy washy.

You know that he is always devoting himself to the relationship the whole time that you’re together.

You can always depend on him to be there for you even when you least expect it.

9. He always thinks of new ways to let you know that he loves you.

He isn’t a one-trick pony.

He always wants to be showering you with his love and his affection, but he doesn’t do the same thing over and over again.

He always makes it a point to never lose an opportunity to express his love for you whether it be through grand gestures or simple expressions.

He always wants you to know just how important you are to him.

10. He doesn’t get weird or freaked out by your periods.

A lot of immature men are just privy to the human anatomy of a female body.

They will want absolutely nothing to do with you and your menstrual problems.

They would get grossed out by it.

It also shows that they are objectifying you by treating your body as something that functions weirdly.

A man who really loves you wouldn’t be grossed out at all.

He would be mature enough to know that it’s a normal aspect of life.

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