Guys are of a different breed, so remember they think completely differently than we do.

What you think may be the best approach may be completely opposite of what is going to work to charm him and keep him wanting you.

A person who wants you will want more than just your sexual affection, but will want to spend more time with you just for being you. They will appreciate you and just want to be around you, no matter where you’re at.

To pull this off, follow these little tips for how to make him want you more. I promise they don’t only work, but they’re great tips for a girl to know overall!


Who doesn’t love a confident person?! We all find confidence, not cocky, people because it’s an attractive quality. Guys don’t want a timid girl that is always talking down and doubting herself.

Confidence is sexy! Don’t ever forget to lift your chin up and walk like you own the place, make people look.


It can be so easy when we are nervous to try a little harder to make a guy want us.

For instance, we might decide to spend extra time getting ready, and dress ourselves up all the time extra special. Or, we may send him cards, texts, or other things to let him know we’re thinking about him. Or, maybe you’re like me, and you tend to express yourself through your words. If so, don’t overload him with how much you’re into him.

You can let him know in subtle ways without chasing him or trying too hard. Guys like to know that girls are relaxed around them and comfortable enough around them to remain low key.

They also tend to like a girl who is a little shy, so don’t be too overbearing at first. Guys hate a nag, and a whiny girl, so never, ever resort to either of these habits and expect to get positive results.


There’s nothing wrong with flooding your Facebook with selfies.

When he sees other guys ‘like’ your photos, he’ll realize that he’s not the only one who finds you attractive.

Posting pictures with your pals is also a great idea, because he’ll be able to see how happy you are when he’s not around. It shows him you have a life outside of your relationship.


While you shouldn’t get too jealous as previously stated, it’s always fun to have him get a little jealous.

Talk about how a guy checked you out that day or how some guy tried to flirt with you at work.

Letting him know that he’s not the only one interested is sure to make him want you more because he doesn’t want anyone else to have you.


Men who think they have to dress a certain way or provide a certain dollaramount of money to keep up with a woman’s beauty or material maintenance can lose interest very quickly.

They can also lose their interest in you because they feel like your demands or needs are too much to deal with. Don’t be too high maintenance and expect this to be attractive to a man. While it’s fine to want nice things or look nice, find a happy medium here so you keep it safe.


You shouldn’t pretend to love soccer, because you know he’s a fan. But you can study up on statistics and watch a game with him. He’ll appreciate the effort you’re putting in. How could he resist a girl that takes a genuine interest in his hobbies?


Guys love a girl who can make them laugh, just like we do!

When you can make a guy laugh, he’ll be interested in your personality and make him want to spend more time around you. Part of making a guy want you is having him want to spend more time with you, so make a funny joke. Don’t be afraid to poke fun at yourself and definitely don’t be afraid to poke fun at him.