Take this with some seriousness, some lightheartedness and some humor and may your relationships be wonderful, tough, rewarding and a learning experience.
This is a woman who, after 7 years ended up divorced.
“Given my experience, there are some key concepts I learned in my journey as well. We, women, have equal responsibility in making a marriage work. For all the points mentioned for husbands, there are perhaps also some for wives I would like to share.”
1. It is very important to seek out the best of him. If you are always looking what you don’t like about him, you will surely find a lot of material.
2. You need to have sex with him often. After the marriage, sex might be not that excited, but do your part and please your men.
3. When you’re emotional then you can’t make any smart move. Especially when it comes to women. We tend to be extremely emotional. However, the best thing to do in such cases is to seek advice from older women who seduced in their marriage.
4. Men sometimes have a moment of brain freeze, he is not ignoring you. So, when it comes to that let him zone out for a while.
5. It is not your job to change him, or maybe fix some problems that he has.
6. Let him know how big/strong/smart/manly he is all the time. They love to hear that and often too.
7. Never forget or take for granted that your man chose you.
8. This one is easier before the marriage. Laugh at his jokes even when they are not funny.
9. We have to take responsibility for our actions and how we respond. And so must he.
10. Men like to brag how their wife cooks well. So, don’t forget to make him some nice meal.
11. Allow your husband to just be. Be gentle and give spirit when the times call for it.
12. When he gets home don’t upset him right away. I know you missed him and that’s the reaction we give when we feel like that. But let him chill.
13. Love him in the way he needs it, not the way you assume he needs it. Find out your different love languages and be sensitive and ready to show him you love him in ways he understands best.
14. Make sure you take care of yourself and how you look. Men love their women sexy even after the marriage.
15. Serve him and he will serve you. Men want their women to take their initiative first.