These are blatant signs that he isn’t serious. Marriage isn’t some trial and error kind of experiment that you can afford to have. You don’t want to end up regretting a decision as big as marriage.
So if you really want to make sure that your boyfriend is ready to get married with you, then you have to make sure that he doesn’t exhibit any of the behaviors that are listed on here.
1. He isn’t motivated or driven to succeed.
You never want to marry a loser who is content with living a life of mediocrity and failure. You always want to marry someone who is determined to find success in life. You want to marry a man who has a plan for his life – someone who has structure and order in the way he goes about his day.
2. He doesn’t make an effort to really pay attention to what you’re saying.
Communication is very important especially in long-term relationships. Communication is always a give and take. He can’t be the one who is doing all the talking in the relationship. He also has to be willing to listen to you and actually pay attention to everything that you’re saying.
3. He lacks common decency and basic respect for women.
A man who doesn’t know how to act respectful and decent in the presence of women is a man who isn’t ready for marriage. He still lacks the maturity that is needed to make a real marriage work.