8 Ways To Keep Your Man From Cheating On You

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Don’t give a person a reason to cheat on you and give them every good reason to remain faithful.  There are a few men who are inclined to cheating. They undermined past lady friends and discuss it rather straightforwardly. They accuse the exes for their own behavior.  There is no aiding these folks and they will most likely keep cheating for whatever is left of their lives.

The regular good guy, however, will not go into a romantic relationship wanting to cheat. In fact, he wants a great relationship just as much just as you do. So, put away the negative titles and find the romantic relationship moving in a great direction with a profitable future.

So, here are 8 ways to prevent your man from cheating:

 Be open to experimentation. Be willing to try new things

It can be easy to get comfortable and fear of the unknown can stop you from being open to different sexual experiences.

Allow your man to try new things with you. If you won’t, there will be someone else who will. I’m not saying to engage in sexual activity you find repulsive but allow yourself to experience new things with the man you love.

 Don’t over accommodate.

Sometimes in a relationship, a woman can become too accommodating.

Men get into relationships with a very clear picture of what a lifetime partner looks like and this is often in stark contrast to whom he may have dated casually. Women work to become the person their partner wants them to be and in doing so, they lose themselves. One day, their man realizes this is what he asked for but he isn’t sure it’s what he really wants.

Maintain a healthy sense of self in your relationship.

 Don’t become too controlling.

Often without realizing it, when we get into relationships we attempt to control the other person to do what works best for us.

We engage in destructive relationship habits such as complaining, blaming, criticizing, nagging, threatening, punishing and bribing or rewarding to control.

Be willing to initiate sex.

Doing the same old thing each and everyday is boring, especially when it comes to the bedroom. If you really want to get your man’s attention and prevent him from cheating on you, start getting creative.  Men equate sex with desirability. Help your man to feel desired by expressing your love in a physical way.

Make sure he knows how much you appreciate him.

Sometimes when women “get” the guy and get married, they begin to get a false sense of security. Remember, all relationships are voluntary.

A person can leave at any time. With an over 50% divorce rate in this country, we need to remember how important it is to maintain a positive relationship, not simply to acquire one.

Let him have time to himself.

Learn to trust him enough to let him do his own thing, some men cheat because they begin to feel hemmed-in by the relationship.

Engaging in an affair can provide them the sense of freedom they lose in a relationship. Allow your man time for himself without you. Don’t try to monopolize all your guy’s time. Be open to time apart for him to spend with friends, pursue hobbies, etc. so he does not feel he has no freedom.

 Be aware of your emotions.

Whether or not we are aware of it, women are masters at using their emotions to communicate volumes without speaking any words. We communicate anger, rage, sadness, and disappointment that is received by our partners.

Instead of taking that as a cue to do something different, some men begin to look for another partner who idolizes them the way you used to. Don’t forget, your man wants to know he lights you up — not that he is constantly disappointing you.

 Prioritize your relationship.

Often, when a man cheats, you will find the woman is also having an “affair” that’s not sexual. It’s more socially appropriate.

This “affair” takes the form of prioritizing something, anything, over the relationship. This could be a job, children, a sick relative, a charity or anything that puts her man lower on her totem pole than the first position.

Prioritize your relationship over everything else. This is the relationship you want to last for all your life. Other things will fade away and the relationship will still be there if you tend to it carefully.

H/T:  Your Tango , The Talko