When a relationship seems to be burning out, guys often tend to take on more work as they try to be around you less and less.

Sure many guys love their job and do put the work in, but you will notice a sudden change of how much time he really puts into his work compared with before.

When you first became a partner, he wanted his friends to meet you and be jealous that he scored such a hot chick. But now, he’ll start having more boys’ nights out leaving you at home and cancelling nights out with you.

Notice you’re discussing negative things like the news and money issues more lately? These topics aren’t intimate, what happen to the funny positive things in life? This is a sign he may be distancing himself to have less of a bond with you. If he never talks positive to you about things or talks about you and him, sex, or romance, then it may be likely he’s getting bored of the relationship and would rather talk football or news, hmmm I think its time for a chat.

Does he like being round you or is he always getting calls then run out? A guy who’s super into you will want to touch and engage you. He will love hanging out with you. If he’s not, his body language essentially takes over, blocking you out to convey that he’s feeling miles apart and would rather be elsewhere than with you.

If you guys were the type to have sex at any time any place, anywhere then all of a sudden he starts to make excuses not to have it, then something is up. Sure you can have your off days or your not as new & excited but its been weeks now and nothing has changed.