You should be with men who know how to treat you right. These men know what it takes to make relationships work and they understand that it’s never going to be easy. These are men who would never quit on you just because things are getting a little difficult.
So how do you know exactly if you’re dating a boy, and not man? Well, there are a few signs that you can check out.
1. He treats love as if it were a game.
He plays with you. He doesn’t take your relationship seriously. He toys with your feelings and your emotions as if you weren’t a real person. He would manipulate you into doing what he wants without regard for how his actions may make you feeel.
2. He feeds off of your insecurities.
He diminishes your confidence every chance he can get. He wants you to believe that you are helpless and worthless. He wants you to think that you need him in your life in order for you to survive. He would never do or say anything to lift you up or boost your confidence.
3. He gets distracted by the little things that don’t matter.
He’s like a little boy in a toy store. He’s just running around getting distracted by shiny things. He doesn’t have any real long-term goals. He doesn’t see the bigger picture. He’s just living life on temporary highs with things that don’t really matter.
4. He only thinks of himself when you’re in bed.
He doesn’t care about whether you’re satisfied or happy. He doesn’t care about giving you orgasms. All he thinks about his himself and his experiences. He really couldn’t care less about whether you reach climax or not. For him, as long as he’s happy, then everything is all good.