If you have a boyfriend who will understand you no matter how cranky you get, a guy that will love and accept you all his heart and soul – all of that and more can be the best signs that you have a great boyfriend.
Telling if he is just in it for his own pleasure or whether he really loves you and cares about you, it can be a bit confusing sometimes. Human intentions are pretty multi-faceted, so it is always best to have some clues to the meanings they might or might not hold.
For that purpose, here we sum up some basic signs that can help you give an idea that your boyfriend is not just holding on to you for the fun of it, but is a good guy with genuine feelings of care and affection for you.
They say when your man is not your biggest fan, he is not your man to begin with. This is to say that when the best of things and circumstances knock on your door, your guy is the first one who is there for you, who appreciates you in all the ways he can, who shows how proud he is of you and all that you have accomplished and the first one to celebrate your good moments with you.
When you feel down, he will be the first one to cheer you up. In a way, he will idolise you with all the best of what he has to offer you. He may not hold the cheerleading pompoms for you but he will still be the first one to tell everyone else about your tiniest to biggest successes and achievements.
He will make you feel like the center of attention, the one under the spotlight and a superstar. That is only because he appreciates your growth as a person and wants you to never forget that someone out there is actually proud of your accomplishments in life
True support does not come by cheering when you win only. What matters more than that is holding on to faith in the other person especially in tough times, when loss is the only thing one sees.
Those tough times are indeed times for trying and the fact that your guy stands up for you in those moments proves how great he is. Instead of losing faith in you, he will only build you back up, harden your resolve and make you get back up on the track and try again.
Even when you fail, he will be there to hold the heavy weight of defeat with you but at the same time, he will make you stronger to fight again the next day. His support will always keep you motivated, even when you yourself start to doubt yourself. Know how great your boyfriend actually is when he makes you feel like a winner even when you tell yourself you are nothing more than a pathetic loser.
He truly and deeply cares for you and wants to see you get the best out of everything life has to offer and so, he will always provide you his resilient support and confidence, no matter how tough things might get.
Imagine being away from your guy but waking up to his sweet good morning texts and sleeping to his warm declarations of love and care. Whether it is asking you if you have taken your meals on time or whether it is just a simply hello, your guy will not fail to text or call you. He will keep you updated on his doings and whereabouts, even if he is busy or out with friends.
If he wants, he would not even bother to do so but it is only because he is a great guy that he sees the necessity in keeping in touch with you, no matter the distance in between you two. Your conversations might not be the usual length, but the love will still be there.
By doing so, he is letting you know that no matter what he is doing, where he is going and who he is with – you are the one constant on his mind
Health comes first – as we have been told like a mantra since we were kids. And your boyfriend realizes this for your sake better than anyone else. A great one, at that, will make the effort to know all about your health conditions. When you get sick, he will take a mental note of which medicines you have to take.
He will memorize the sort of diet you should be on if you are a bit diet-conscious. He will never let you feel physically helpless when you are not on your best of days in terms of health. And even if he does not manage to do any of this, you will always know how much he cares about you by his concern for you and his ‘get well soon’ wishes.
Your boyfriend is a great one when he sees you crying, or having a slight breakdown or just downright feeling small and weak and feels more terrible than you.
He is your support system, so when he sees you teetering on the edge of weakness, he will feel like the worst guy on the planet. Not to mention his utmost efforts to make you feel better, he will also make sure you never feel that way again.
He hates to see you cry. This is a sign how much your boyfriend cares about you. Just as your smiles and achievements make him happy, your sorrow and tears make him sad too.
Your great boyfriend might not be Batman, or the richest guy in the world, or be an award-winner and own ten big jet planes. But he is still your hero – your unmasked and most humane hero.
When anyone hurts you or your feelings, does wrong to you or falsely accuses you and so on, your guy will suddenly turn all macho and be there to defend you no matter who and what he is up against. Your safety is his first concern.
He is your hero who will not only save you from the world but also from yourself. When the darkness inside you begins to consume the best in you, trust your guy to be there for you and to remind you of who you are, bring you back to yourself and save you from the monsters inside yourself.
The fact that he has no idea what he might be facing only proves how great and loving he truly is towards you.He inspires you greatly
It is a sign that you don’t just have any boyfriend but a great and amazing one at that too, when he is your inspiration behind most things in life; things that matter the most anyway. When you so much as even think about giving up on your dream, he will keep you inspired and motivated. Just the thought of being with him tomorrow, and having him be a part of your future will keep you be enough inspiration for you to keep going and trying your best.
When the negatives of the world and society seem to get the better of you and you begin to doubt yourself, he will motivate you to not give in to those doubts and be the best person you can be. You will feel yourself coming back to life after almost giving up on your dreams and aspirations, through the inspiration and encouragement given to you by your guy.
Having a great boyfriend includes having him be your home – that safe place you go to whenever things get ugly. He is your biggest support system. Before you go off to give a thesis defense or learn driving, he will make you feel nervous by words of comfort and consolation. When the worlds lets you down, he will take you somewhere fun and make it look like the world you two share amongst yourselves is the only one and the best one there is.
When you face major problems, whether in your personal life or work life or both, your great boyfriend will be your no.1 driving force to keep going and overcome those problems. He will not only give you strength to face your fears but will also face them with you, if that is what it takes.
All in all, his great love and sympathy for you revolves around the fact that he is your first and foremost support system and he will not let you break, no matter what life throws at you.