Here are 7 signs that you definitely need to break up with your man and end the relationship.
1. Your boyfriend has no direction or plan in life.
It takes a certain sense of maturity to make a relationship work. And with maturity, a person is going to have to have some structure and direction in his life. If your boyfriend isn’t even mature enough to see how important it is to have a plan in life, he’s not worth being in a relationship with.
2. Your boyfriend is reckless with money.
Financial stability is important in a long-term relationship. Money matters are always going to play a big role in the longevity of a relationship. If your boyfriend is constantly being reckless with money, then that’s definitely a bad sign for whatever shared future you are going to have.
3. Your boyfriend refuses to just outright commit to you.
Can you even call him your boyfriend? Have you been dating for months and you’re still not sure about where you stand in the relationship? Walk out. He’s not committing to you.
4. Your boyfriend never values your time.
Time is very important and it should only be afforded to the people who are most important to you. And if your boyfriend doesn’t value your time, it’s because he doesn’t value who you are as a person either. He thinks it’s okay to waste your time because you don’t matter much to him.
5. Your boyfriend is still active on those dating apps.
Why would he still be on those dating apps if he were truly serious about being in a relationship with you? If he’s not willing to take things seriously with you, then you shouldn’t be willing to take things seriously with him either.
6. Your boyfriend never treats you as the priority in his life.
While it’s unreasonable for you to think that you should be the only important thing in his life, it’s fine for you to expect to place you first every once in a while. If you feel like you are constantly playing second-fiddle, then it’s better to walk away.
7. Your boyfriend doesn’t make an effort to ever make you feel special.
To you, he’s a cut above the rest. But you can’t confidently say that he feels the same way about you. You are constantly made to feel like you aren’t special because he really doesn’t put in the effort at all.