While in a relationship with ‘our guy’, there are a lot of things that we think about but we hold our words to ourselves because we don’t want to hurt the feelings of our significant other.

At times, we are too shy to express what we want from our life partner and sometimes we are just too afraid that our thoughts might offend him.

Here are 6 things that almost every girlfriend wants to tell her boyfriend / life partner, but she is either too shy or too afraid to say it to him.


1. She Want You To Be Neater

Untidiness really puts us off. To women, being messy is not at all ‘a cool thing.’ So try to be a bit tidier next time you come to meet us.

Every woman wants her partner to be clean and neat looking. Basic hygiene is a must. Dirty hands and feet, and bad breath can really turn us off. We don’t say this directly because we don’t want to offend you but we will appreciate if you stick to the basic hygiene standards and be a bit neater. 

2. Your Wardrobe Needs A Make Over

Many men are handsome and smart but their fashion sense is totally below average. We don’t expect you to be in a designer outfit all the time, but at least have some basic sense of fashion. At times, we just want to swap your whole wardrobe but we are just afraid that we might offend you.

3. She Want You To Be Good Looking Or at least better looking

We women want to show you off to the world, but first we expect you to be a bit more presentable. Your compassion, sincerity and love are most important for us but looks also do matter a lot. Invest in grooming products; they will make you look more attractive and presentable.

The first thing a girl will notice in you is your physical attraction. If you are not lucky genetically, you can still learn some tricks to transform yourself from bad-looking to good-looking. Go visit some salons, follow fashion experts or ask your friends; just do something and be better looking when to go on a date with your girl next time.

4. She Love Romance

Women love a fairytale romance. You got it right; we really want to be treated like a princess. We love to be adored, admired, loved and cared for. We want our guy to go an extra mile to make us feel special.

Special dinner date, chocolates, flowers, surprise gifts, love notes, ‘missing you’ texts and calls; we just love all these little things. We want our boyfriend to make us feel as we are on cloud nine, but of course we cannot ask you directly for all these little things. 

5. She Want To Feel Special

Women want you to make them feel special. Women want their men to make the extra effort, go the extra mile and take extra care of them to make them feel out of this world. Women really want their life partner to show chivalrous gestures; opening car door, offering her a seat, helping her with her coat, making her feel protected etc.

They are always hesitant in asking for these acts of care but they always crave for chivalry in their man.

6. She Want You To Be Smart

Women are always attracted towards smart and intelligent guys. Even the most handsome guy will lose his charm if he is dumb. We don’t expect you to be book smart, but intelligent enough to keep us engaged in an interesting talk.

H/t:  RelRules