These clues weren’t there to make you paranoid, these is to give you a hint that your relationship may need some help.
When you’re with your friends, you’re happy: smiling, laughing, being a total goofball. But whenever your boyfriend comes around, your whole personality changes. Suddenly, you’re irritable, bored and kind of bummed out. If that sounds like you, take notice. You may need to start paying close attention to your moods, but if you notice a pattern similar to that, it’s a definite warning sign.
Relationships aren’t going to be exciting every single day, especially long-term ones, but if you find yourself feeling bored and restless more often than not, that’s not a great sign. Try spicing things up and doing some different stuff. If none of that brings the spark back, it may be out for good.
You used to text him updates all day and call him every night before bed, but now… well, you just don’t really care. Or maybe you just forget to get in touch. If you don’t have a desire to talk to your boyfriend when you’re not with him, something’s going on. Even if you’re just “forgetting,” there’s a reason behind that. You don’t forget to call someone every day.
Mourning the loss of your single life freedom is completely normal when you’re in a long-term relationship, but eventually you should settle in and feel happier to be with someone you love. If you’re constantly feeling jealous of your single friends and wishing you could be out there with them, that might indicate that you actually want to be single also.
When you first started dating your boyfriend, you probably thought the weird little things about him were adorable. Now? Not so much. When your boyfriend can’t do anything without making you want to pull your hair out in frustration, that’s not good. If everything he does and says is doing more than just bugging you, but actually making you really angry, things might be over.
It’s totally normal to consider breaking up once in a while, especially after a big fight. But if you’re thinking about it all the time, constantly wondering what it would be like and fantasizing about the things you would do, you’re doing that for a reason. Maybe you really do want to break up with this guy. If you didn’t, it wouldn’t always be on your mind.
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