These are 6 signs that you love someone more than they love you.

If you were really with someone who loves you deeply, they would always want to make sure that they have a place in your future. But if they don’t really give a damn about your personal goals and plans, then they might not be so invested in your future as you once thought.

A person who is madly in love with you would definitely be obsessed with learning as much as they could about you and your life. If they feign a sense of disinterest and indifference, then perhaps they don’t love you as much as you thought.

You never feel like you are a part of your partner’s future with the way that they make plans without you. They rarely ever include you in the planning process and you end up always feeling left out.

You are the one who always has to send the first text. You are the one who is always scrambling your brain to think of a conversation topic. You are the one who always has to ask your partner out on a date. All the effort comes from you.

Essentially, what you have to say or think doesn’t really matter much to your partner. Your thoughts and musings are of little significance to the person you are supposedly madly in love with.They don’t think it necessary to reciprocate your romantic gestures.

You are the one who always whispers words of affection into their ears. You are always the one who is splurging on gifts. You are the one who plans surprise parties for them. But you never get the same kind of treatment.

You are never really made to feel like you have a place in your partner’s life. You take your relationship day by day because you aren’t really even sure that you have a secure place in it. You are constantly being given a reason to second-guess your worth in the relationship.

H/T:  Relrules