1. He’s Trying To Make You Jealous
This is a huge sign he’s still in love with you. When someone is over a relationship, they’re not thinking about what their ex is thinking. They’re not trying to affect their ex in any way – they’re beyond it. So if he’s trying to make you jealous, by rubbing a new girlfriend in your face, or bringing someone new somewhere he knows you’ll be, he’s trying to get a reaction out of you.
And if he’s trying that hard to get a reaction out of you, he’s still obsessed with you, how you’re feeling, what you’re thinking, and how you feel about him. And that’s a massive sign that he’s still in love with you.
2. He’s Nice One Day And Cold The Next
If his behavior towards you changes by the day, that’s a very good sign that he’s got unresolved feelings towards you. When we accept the end of a relationship, we stop letting the breakup affect us so much. We let go of the other person’s stranglehold on our emotions, and move forward with a good understanding of how we feel.
So if he’s acting one way towards you one day, and then completely differently the next, it means he’s still working through his feelings. That unsettledness is a huge sign that he’s not over you – because if he was, he wouldn’t be having crazy behavior swings towards you. So if he’s going hot and cold on you it’s a big sign that he still cares a lot about you.
3. He Follows All Your Moves
Like I said before, if a guy is truly over a breakup then he’s not going to be obsessed with his ex and he’s going to let her go. That means he’s not going to keep a close eye on her… because he’s not going to feel an urge to do it.
So if he’s showing up at places he knows you’ll be, or asking your friends about your love life, or you catch him cyber-stalking you on Facebook or Instagram, that’s a huge dead giveaway sign. It means he can’t stop thinking about you – and if that’s not a huge sign that he’s still in love with you, then I don’t know what is.
4. He Contacts You By Text & Phone
This is about as plain as it gets.
If your ex is calling you, or sending you texts, or messaging you over Facebook. it means he wants to keep in contact with you – which is a huge sign he still has feelings. Obviously, if he’s calling to organize getting his stuff back, or trying to coordinate a shared responsibility, that’s not a strong sign he loves you. But if he’s contacting you just to talk, or to ask you how you’re doing, or to check up on your love life – it’s a dead giveaway that he still cares about you a lot.
5. He Keeps In Contact With Your Family And Friends
Obviously, if you had the same group of friends before you started dating, this rule doesn’t apply.
But if he didn’t know any of your friends or family before you two started dating, and he’s keeping in regular contact with them, it could be a sign that he’s digging for information about you.
And if that’s the case – it means he’s still obsessed with you. This sign on its own isn’t a guarantee that he still has strong feelings for you. But if you see this sign combined with a few of the other signs on this list, then you’re in luck… And the chances are good that your ex still loves you