You just want some closure. You want to be able to know if they aren’t calling you back because of who you are or if it’s because they’re just dealing with some issues over on their side of the fence.

It’s not always going to be so simple and there will always be a world of possibilities. Here are a few of those possibilities.

1.They are afraid of getting rejected.

A lot of people will be too afraid of getting rejected by someone else that they might end up undercutting that person and beating them to the punch.

They will reject you right away before they give you a chance to reject them in the future.

2. Too many things are taking up a lot of their time.

They might be a little focused on their job at the moment and that’s why they don’t really have the time to call you up and take you on a second date.

Or perhaps they’re dealing with some personal issues concerning their families that might be preoccupying them.

3. They aren’t really looking for anything serious.

They might not necessarily want the same things that you want.

You have probably made it evident that you’re just not really interested in any flings or casual hookups and that might exactly be the only thing they’re after.

4. You might have intimidated them with your aggressiveness.

You may have come off a little strong and turned them off to the idea of calling you back. It happens.

There are just some people who don’t respond well to aggressive and forward behavior.

5. You aren’t exactly what they’re looking for.

As hurtful as it may sound, you also have to consider the possibility that you might just not be what they’re looking for.

H/T: RelRules