You have to be making a constant effort every day that you’re together to make your partner attracted to you.
This is a very common aspect of relationships at which a lot of people will fail at.
1. You criticize one another way too often.
There is room for criticism in a relationship but there is always a limit to that. Yes, you have to be honest with one another at all times, but you also have to make sure that your timing is right.
Not all opportunities for criticism should be taken liberally.
You have to be able to pick your spots wisely and always be constructive with your criticisms.
2. You don’t express your love in a physical manner.
Love isn’t something that you just feel or say. It’s also something that you need to act on and express with your actions.
You should never be making your partner feel like there is a lack of intimacy or affection in the relationship. You can’t hold back your feelings if you want things to work out in the end.
3. You don’t know how to pick your battles.
Not everything is worth fighting over in a relationship. You have to be able to let some things go for the sake of your love.
You don’t have to make a big deal out of every single disagreement just to prove a point. Some arguments are just better left untouched.
4. You stop taking care of yourself.
Don’t let yourself go. Take better care of your body. Practice some good grooming. Wear better clothes. Just because you’re in a loving relationship with someone doesn’t give you an excuse to just act like a slob.
Sure, your partner is probably going to accept you for who you are.
But they will appreciate it all the more when you actually put in the effort to make yourself look presentable and healthy.