According to relationship experts, these are the most common behaviors that can cause relationship disorders and lead to the demise of relationships.
1. Avoiding problems
No one likes to have an unpleasant conversation, but no relationship will be all sunshine and rainbows every day. As difficult as it may be to broach a challenging subject, you have to just take a deep breath and approach it in a kind and loving way.
Avoiding things that upset you will only eat away at you and could cause to explode somewhere down the line.
2. Creating negativity out of nothingness
Often, people who have had abusive relationships in the past or difficulties during childhood will draw negativity out of nothing at all. Negativity breeds negative actions and consequences.
If you think negatively about every action of your partner such as, “He did not say he loved me when he texted.
He must hate me now,” instead of looking at the reality of how he messaged you while he was busy at work, you are making a mountain out of a molehill. It will take some practice, but you must shift your thinking to a more positive point of view.
3. Expecting perfection
There is nothing in the world that is completely perfect. Everyone and everything has a flaw.
If you hold your partner up to unrealistic expectations of perfection, you are going to be very disappointed.
Let go of this rigid thinking and accept the flaws in your partner as well as in yourself and you will become a much happier person for it.