Here are 16 signs to tell if he’s Faking It in the love department:
1. If he says to you ‘I only want to be with you,” pay attention.
The question that should come to mind is, ‘Well, who else? Who else would you want to be with? Why am I the only one?’ What does that even mean?
2. He says, ‘I want you to have my baby.’
Trust me, that very often is said in the passion of the moment and he means it in the moment but it’s not going to be the way he feels the next day.
3. He’s NOT affectionate.
if you’re kissing and he’s kissing you back but you find his eyes are open and he’s looking around, you should know that’s a sign to consider.
4. If you didn’t make the effort, you wouldn’t see him
Think about it: if you didn’t call him, if you didn’t ask him to hang out, if you didn’t drive to his place or show up when he asked you to be somewhere, would you see each other? If the answer is no, then you’re a toy.
5. He only reaches out when drunk
This means he doesn’t care what impression he makes on you, and that he only has “feelings” for you when they are alcoholically manifested.
6. He doesn’t give you special attention
When in a crowd, he doesn’t give you a big, direct greeting. No kiss on the cheek. No hug. Just a, “Hey” or a simple nod. He doesn’t want anyone, including you, to think that you’re his “special guest.”
7. He’s using his phone all the time
If he really cared about you being around—if you were irreplaceable to him—he would not be texting away while the two of you were hanging out.
8. He has silly excuses to leave
Excuses that could easily wait, or be attended to by somebody else. He forgot to turn on his recorder for his favorite show. His dog needs to be walked right now. He wants to buy groceries.
9. He doesn’t cuddle you
Even the coldest-hearted, weirdest guy feels the urge to cuddle a girl when he likes her. Even if he doesn’t like cuddling, he does it to make her happy.
10. But when he does cuddle you…
It’s because he needs it. He had a rough day. He just ran into his ex and needs to feel wanted. He just uses you to make himself feel better.