Those relationships that suck the life out of you everyday, it’s better to leave as soon as possible before you get in too deep.
Here are 15 hints that means you may be in a toxic relationship:
1. Everything is always dramatic.
every little thing is war, ” First off, no one likes getting screamed on so if they can’t control themselves, it’s a big no-no.
2. You both negatively influenced each other
Particularly harmful habits like heavy drinking, laziness, or smoking.
3. Passive agression
Let’s not lie everyone gets a little passive agressive, but always being in that horrible state all the time with another person isn’t worth it.
4. You Don’t Support each Other
You never turn to each other for emotional support. You look to other people first.
5. Avoiding each other
”No, it’s just that we don’t want to see each other… for maybe like a week?” Taking breaks every two weeks won’t help, it’ll postpone the problem but you’ll have to take care of it at one point.
6. Yes Is Yes
Your partner doesn’t respect your answer when you say “no” to something.
7. They want you all to themselves.
At first it’s cute it seems like they really love you. But at some point they get mad that you don’t want to be with them all the time or that you got a new you friend and they are ”taking you from them”. It’s a red flag dear stay woke!
8. Jealousy all the time
Were human it’s normal that we sometimes want what others have, but excessive jealousy is never okay. They can’t stand it when you’re in a happy relationship or when you got a promotion or when you’re happy.
9. Your partner doesn’t make you feel good about your body at all.
They point out your thinning hair, fat or saggy underarm skin.
10. Reminiscing on the past sad memories and never thinking of the future.
There’s nothing wrong with thinking of the good ol’ days, but when they start bringing sadness along you know something is wrong.
11. Back stabbing
”Well, Becky told me, that John told her, that Sarah told her, that y’all weren’t friends anymore.” You always seem to be the last one to know you have a problem with them. How is that even possible?
12. You’re not happy with him/her
Faking smiles a lot? Are they even worth it? Yeah, I didn’t think so.
If someone is lighting all those flags on fire, run as quick as you can because no one is allowed to ruin your life they are. Stay in healthy relationships only.
13. You don’t have a sense of relationship security, all day fight
You’ve broken up or almost broken up numerous times because of everyday fight.
14. Blaming game strong
You blame your partner for your life not being as satisfying as you’d like it to be—or they blame you.
15. You are avoiding home
There are times you avoid coming home because going to Starbucks, or a bar, is more relaxing after a stressful day than coming home to your partner.