Instead of staying in a dead end relationship with hopes that things may get better at some point, it’s time for you to start recognizing the signs that point to you being in a one-sided relationship. You start to notice that your man is growing more distant and colder over time. You start to think that he may not be as into you as you initially imagined. You think to yourself that perhaps it just takes him more time to open up to other people. Maybe you’re the one who is expecting too many things at a pace that’s too fast for him to keep up with.
However, you should also be open to the possibility that maybe he’s not just that into you. Perhaps even early on in the relationship, he doesn’t see a future with you in it. If that’s the case, then you definitely shouldn’t prolong the agony of forcing a relationship that just doesn’t mesh well. Save yourself the heartbreak of having to move on from a man you’ve become completely invested in.
Keep reading to see 13 sings that he will never fall in love with you.
1. He talks about other girls constantly.
It’s a blatant act of disrespect whenever he starts talking about other girls in your presence. Or perhaps he’s trying to send you subliminal messages that he’s interested in a lot of other girls who aren’t you. Maybe you should take the hint.
2. He doesn’t take time out of his schedule for you.
If a man were truly interested in you, he would move mountains and oceans just to be able to spend time with you. If you find yourself being someone who is always on the losing end in the relationship, then maybe he really isn’t as invested in your union as you are.
3. He’s still stuck on his ex
If your boyfriend is still hung up on his ex, the chances of him falling in love with you are slim. Sadly, he’s probably just using you to pass the time. As soon as he and his ex work through their differences, he will be back in her arms.
You can’t fault him for having feelings for someone he was once with, but if he isn’t completely over her, he has no business being in a relationship with you. Do him a favor and cut him loose now because it will be almost impossible for him to open his heart to you if it already belongs to someone else.
4. He doesn’t ask you about your life.
If a man truly liked you, he wouldn’t get tired of hearing about your thoughts and opinions. A man is always deeply interested in the women that they think they have potential to fall in love with. If he doesn’t ask you questions about your day or life in general, then he’s not interested.
5. You’re already in the friend zone
When a guy already sees you as just a friend, it’s almost impossible for him to change his mind about you.
If he treats you like a friend, he’s dating other women, and he brushes you off every time you open up to him, you already know deep down inside how this story is going to end. Maintain your dignity and pride by moving on and finding a guy who sees you as more than just a friend.
6. He is hesitant when it comes to meeting your family.
He avoids your family like the plague. He knows the emotional weight that comes along with meeting the family of another person and he is not having any of it. If he keeps making up excuses to not meet your family, then he isn’t as comfortable with you as you think he is.
7. He makes you the butt of his jokes.
A man should always respect his women, especially when it’s a woman he loves. If he always makes you the butt of his jokes, then maybe he really doesn’t see you as someone he could potentially love. It’s important for a man to have a sense of humor, but not at the expense of your character.