If you have an abusive husband then it is still a bit difficult to get rid of him but if you are in a relationship and you have an abusive boyfriend then it’s time you throw that stupid person out of your life.
If you feel that you are going through same kind of abuse then here are the top 10 ways to get rid of an abusive boyfriend:
1. Move to another town:
Abusive relationships are sometimes very difficult to get rid of, being in a relationship two people share their lives together, even if you get rid of him you can’t get rid of the memories and the moments you shared together.
After breaking up staying in the same town cannot be a very good idea, there are chances that you might pop up into him again, he may try to harm him, and in such cases the best thing is to move out of the town.
2. Avoid him:
The first thing to do is to break up all the contacts with him, stopping meeting him, don’t attend his calls. Try to stay away from him, delete him from all the social networking sites, change your phone number, block all his emails, and change your apartment if possible.
3. Walk away:
A relationship is based on respect, love fades will with time, it is the respect and care which makes two people compatible.
If your partner abuses you then its pretty clear that you partner doesn’t love you. It’s to get back to your life, buckle up and tell that bastard to go to hell. He is not worth your love, you will find someone who actually deserves your love, but this time you need to walk away.
4. Get help from your family:
Most of the time guys abuse his girlfriend when they think that there is no one to look after her, if your boyfriend beats you up or hits you then it’s time that you get rid of him. Getting rid of a guy can sometimes not be easy, we never know if the person turns out to be psycho and tries to do some serious harm.
Dealing with him won’t be easy alone so it’s better to tell your family about it, they will definitely help you in any way possible. There are many high chances that the guy won’t try to harm you if you have your family at your back-up.
5. Get restraint order:
Restraint orders means to you get the orders from the court saying that a person has to stop doing a particular act or crime, or else he or she will be punished.
Keep in mind that you are getting the restrain orders for your own safety, your relationship was long over, now you just need to tell him that it’s over, and you are breaking up and throw the restrain orders on his face.
6. Go to the women abuse centre:
If you are getting abuse from your partner, it can be bad for you both physically and emotionally.
If you have no family and nowhere else where you can feel safe then the best place to go is the women abuse centre. This place will give you security and will help you heal in the best way possible.
7. Get help from friends:
If you live away from your family then you can get your friends to help you, simply break up with him, if you live together then move out, or if it’s your place then throw him out. Ask some of your friend to come and live with you for some time.
Do not go out alone; ask any of your friends to accompany you.
8. Contact some religious scholar or leader:
Just in case your boyfriend happens to be a very rich and powerful guy then you will be needing some equally powerful person at your back up. His being rich doesn’t give him the right to abuse you, break up with him and tell him who you have at your back to give you protection. The scholars or leaders are experienced and they know very how to deal with these situations.
9. Report the police:
If your boyfriend has started to abuse you then it is no longer your personal problem, it’s high time that you involve some authorities.
Abuse is a serious crime and the culprit should be punished, he should be thrown behind the bars so that some other stupid guys will also learn a lesson; try your best to get him arrested.
Don’t worry about the relationship, the day he started abusing you is the day the relationship ended.
10. Abuse him back:
Follow what this old idiom says, “paying back in the same coin”. This is the 21st century ladies, you are breaking up and that’s final but the guy who has caused you so much pain, you aren’t letting him go that easily.
He would have to pay for his sins, if he has caused you mental trauma then do the same with him, if he hits you then do the same with him.
Call all your friends and some goons, beat him up in the same way he use to do, make sure that he remembers these things for the rest of his life and never ever thinks about abusing another woman.
When you are done causing him pain in every possible way then breakup with him, tell him to get lost and never show his ugly face again.