10 Things That Men Notice in Women at First Sight

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1. Your Confidence.

Most important of all to a guy meeting you for the first time is the energy that you exude. There is absolutely nothing (and I mean nothing) that a guy finds more attractive than confidence. If you can carry yourself assertively and possess a strong sense of self, a guy will take notice immediately, no matter what your other characteristics are. Now that’s universally sexy.

2. Your Hair.

All women who take care of their hair and are conscious about the well being of their hair are witty ones, as they know the secret that healthy and beautiful hair is a way to attract a man towards them. Surveys have proven that men want to be around and with women who have beautiful, shiny, and nice smelling hair.

3. Your Smile.

A lady’s mouth is often the very first part of a woman a guy will see. Not only are great lips and teeth sexy, but guys will look to your mouth for social cues, as it’s the most expressive feature you possess. A warm, inviting smile might communicate, “Here I am, come talk to me.” A sly, seductive smirk might convey, “You can try, but you’ll have to work for it.” And a scowl may suggest, “Turn around, and head back to your mother’s basement,” or, “I have spinach in my teeth.”

4. Your Breast.

Look, unless they’re concealed and shrouded like King Tutankhamun, your breasts will be noticed by any warm-blooded male who meets you for the first time. Men are simply biologically programmed to seek them out like pigs that forage for truffles. Whether you choose to present your boobs proudly like trophies or secure them conservatively to preserve some element of mystery is entirely up to you — but you must know that guys are looking. And evaluating. And talking.

5. Your Eyes.

Though a less tactful fella might get caught sneaking a peek at other assets, your eyes are what a guy should be looking at during conversation. But any experienced guy will want to look into your eyes for more than just their lovely aesthetic properties. They say “eyes are the window to the soul,” and as cliché as it most definitely sounds, it’s kinda true. A lot of information can be conveyed and received via eye contact, and any guy trying to get to know you will look to yours as a means of flirting and reading signals.

6. Your Body Type.

It’s not something anyone likes to admit, but your build is as much a part of you as any other physical characteristics. For plenty of guys, a woman’s weight is a more superficial attribute that matters less to them than other factors when choosing a mate. But some guys specifically seek out the Olive Oyl type, while others prefer to date a woman who’s got curves. If he’s hitting on you, he’s interested in yours.

7. Your Smell.

Your scent is often the one thing about you that a guy will remember most vividly long after you’ve parted ways. It can linger on clothes, hands, or linens, and give the guy a gentle reminder of the amazing woman he’s just met. Always use soaps or perfume that you enjoy, but maybe not something that’d likely be worn by an old lady who collects antiques and shares an attic with 14 cats. (Thirteen’s OK.)

8. Your Skin.

Skin is another very common thing a man notices in a woman. Hence, you should work upon your skin. Your skin should be well hydrated and supple in winters and should not be flaky and dry. Moreover, men look for a healthy and good complexion in a woman, mind it, it is good complexion and not fair complexion. Good complexion means your overall skin tone should be even and not be tanned. Every man has fetish for different skin tone from fair to dusky to dark, and hence skin tones should be more even and glowing.

9. Your Butt.

In yet another unfortunate (but inevitable) case of objectification, when you leave, that guy will likely (hopefully at least discreetly) also grab a glimpse of your booty. Most gentlemen either fall more squarely in the “breast” or “butt” camp, claiming connoisseurship of one body part over the other. But identifying a guy who notices neither would be like discovering and proving the existence of the Loch Ness Monster.

10. Your Legs.

It doesn’t come off as a surprise that men get fascinated by the legs of women. Studies have shown that women who have longer legs than the usual are more likely to attract men. Moreover, filled legs (neither skinny nor fatty) attract men at one go towards a woman and become one of the important features of a woman that a man notices.

H/T: Cosmopolitan WeTellYouHow