Here are 10 telltale signs you’re being taken for granted that you should talk to your partner about immediately.
When you’re in a relationship, you should make each other your top priority – or at least one of your top priorities. If he constantly chooses his friends over you, or he always wants to do what he wants to first, or he just never makes time for you but can make time for other stuff, that’s a problem. Of course there are moments when something else takes top priority, but for the most part, you should be his. And if you never are, maybe he’s not ready for a relationship.
You’ll meet up when he can make time for you and it’s never the other way around. It doesn’t matter if you’re moving into a new apartment, he doesn’t show up because he’s “busy” and expects you to come see him that night.
It’s not just that he takes a while to get back to you. He outright ignores your calls and texts to hang out. Then he feigns some lame excuse, like he was sleeping even though it was 7 p.m.
Sometimes you feel like he just calls you to come over and have sex. Maybe because you only hang out at night.
The few times he actually agrees to do something he doesn’t want to do, he’s in a bad mood the entire time, to the point where it ruins the experience for you. You’ll never see a rom-com with him again.
“He can’t be bothered to actually plan a date or even agree to go on a date you plan. There’s nothing wrong with binge-watching Netflix with your boyfriend, but if you’ve told him you’re not happy with that and he doesn’t do anything about it, there’s a problem.
And he doesn’t care if you come either. Sex ends when he has an orgasm and then rolls over.
Some guys aren’t great at compliments or communicating their feelings, but if you actually can’t remember the last time he said anything nice about you, DTMF.
Even when you’re just trying to let him know what your plans for the week are. He doesn’t take the time to sit and listen. And he’ll wind up planning something on a day you asked him to be around because he “forgot.”
Relationships are about sacrifices. If your boyfriend expects you to make them, but won’t do the same back? Nope. If he never puts you first, or never gives up something he wants to do to do what you want to do, that’s not cool. It needs to be a give and take.