If you seem to be having trouble getting a dates, it might be time to take a look at yourself and how you are interacting. Here’s a look at the kind of chicks that guys don’t like.
What many women don’t realize is it’s very easy to accidentally sabotage your relationship — you don’t need to hack into your partner’s email or boil his pet rabbit to raise a red flag.
Here’s a look at the kind of Women that guys don’t like.
1. Angry Attitude .
Every man is not your enemy. Every man is not a dog. Check the angry attitude at the door. It’s not attractive at all.
2. The Ball Buster
The typical “Ball Buster” seeks control of the relationship by putting her man in his place … repeatedly. She views herself as a “problem-solver.”
Though she has noble intentions (sometimes), constantly telling her man his way is the wrong way isn’t so much noble as it is infuriatingly annoying.
By trying to control him, she undermines his thoughts, wishes, and, perhaps most importantly … his sense of competence. All of this robs him of something each man holds near and dear: his masculinity.
3. Needy baby greedy baby.
She is so eager to please because she desperately wants a man. Now, a lot of men will recognize her and smash but never call after that.
4. The Mother (She mothers her partner.)
“The Mother” does exactly what it sounds like — she mothers her partner.
She dotes on him, she fusses and worries, she believes he can do no wrong, perhaps she even picks out a sailor suit and knee socks for him to wear on the first day at his new job.
She also preoccupies herself with the emotional barometer of the relationship.
This might sound healthy, but it’s actually not.
The “Mother” puts all the relationship (all the joys, all the sorrows, all the ups and downs) — on her back. She puts pressure on herself and herself alone; it’s her duty to make the relationship work.
She’s constantly wondering how he’s feeling, where she stands, and whether he is okay and what she can do to fix it.
The problem with this role is two-fold. First, a girlfriend or wife who acts like a man’s mother will lead him to rebel.
After all, that’s what children do. Second, it’s unfair for a woman to baby a grown man! She might not mind it initially, but it’ll only lead to resentment down the line.
Do shave under your arms as it will get funky fast and it’s simply unattractive. And as to point south, keep it trim. She apparently has a weave and doesn’t realize it has an odor. Maybe it’s old or was done on the cheap. Going natural is also very attractive alternative.
6. The Love Vixen
“The Love Vixen” is a charmer, forever able to draw men into her waiting arms. She does this by defining herself with her sexuality.
In other words, she controls her mate with sex.
The reason this sabotages a relationship is because she’s essentially manipulating and blackmailing her partner — if he wants sex, he must do what “The Love Vixen” wants.
And, it’s safe to say: Any relationship based on blackmail probably won’t remain successful for long.
7. The Damsel in Distress
The concept of “The Damsel in Distress” is simple: Boy meets girl, boy rescues girl, boy, and girl lives happily ever after.
It may sound romantic, easy and productive, but it only works for a little while. In the long run, a damsel can’t always be in distress (unless she stars in several Lifetime Movies) and the man can’t always act as the hero.
It’s too exhausting — and unrealistic — on both fronts. In the end, the man ends up resenting her for her incompetence.
We’re talking feet here. If you are going to wear sandals or open toe shoes, please take care of your feet. Nothing more “eww” than seeing a lady sit down, cross her legs and show some dusty feet with big ol’ corns sticking out.
9. The Tease
Most of us, at one time or another, have known a tease, the type of person who teases only to pull away before she seals the deal. Though this isn’t necessarily sabotaging in moderation, overindulgence leads to feelings of frustration.
Like actual teasing, it’s fun at first, but then it gets old real fast.
Too much teasing builds a wall between two partners, a foundation they can’t surmount because of a disconnect.
He feels unsatisfied, inadequate, and she feels lonely — both partners feel as if they can’t express themselves openly and honestly.
You can have a tummy and still look yummy.
Not all women have a Beyoncé shape or hot body. Dress according to your size! Never wear clothes that are two sizes too small. If you are a lady of substance, you can still dress tastefully.
10. The Accountant
“The Accountant” focuses on the equality of a relationship — the complete and TOTAL equality.
A woman in this role may keep track of who pays for what and when (some may even track it to the dollar amount or take into consideration each other’s respective salaries).
The problem here is that relationships aren’t business; they’re pleasure. If they’re not seen as enjoyable, intimacy will fall by the wayside and love just becomes collateral damage.
11. The Princess
When a woman plays the role of “The Princess,” she cares less about love than she does about being adored and put on a pedestal.
To put it simply, “The Princess” wants to marry a man who views her as a trophy wife.
Women who adopt this role aren’t only robbing their significant other of happiness (as their relationship is empty and for show), but also robbing themselves, taking away a chance at real love and connection.
In the end, every woman has played one of these roles (and men play their own roles, as well).
On occasion, falling into these roles probably won’t affect your relationship much at all. However, playing them repeatedly destroys relationships until there’s nothing left to ruin.
12. The Ratchet Mouth.
She’s loud. It’s one thing to have a big beautiful laugh, but it’s another to talk at such a high volume all the time that anyone in the restaurant can hear you.
Sorry if any of these descriptions fit you, but then again, you probably wouldn’t want a man with many of these habits either!